When we get things before asking for them & when we aren't ready, and when we don't value what we have in front of our eyes. We are indeed blind.
We may have sight, But we are blind, PERIOD !
Ever thought as to why we do not value things when we have them and then cry for them when we lose them?. Ever wonder as to why this happens?. Why?.
Is it because we want to experience pain or because we are just too dumb, extroverted and lost in the pursuit of worldly happiness that we forget to establish the deeper connection that’s needed for us to feel alive?. Why ? why? Why?
Why are we so ignorant?. Why haven't we established a deeper emotional connection with oneself and yet wish to be emotionally connected to everyone around us and want them to respect our emotions?. How can you have sympathy and empathy for others when you aren't sympathetic and empathetic to yourself?.
We have the habit of blaming others instead of accepting the ignorance that’s clouded us. Let’s get real. When we were genuinely interested in something we just found ways to figure things out. The drive to solve the problem and experience freedom helps us push to the limits. Isn't it?.
If we understand and apply the same in every aspect of our lives, The only person we will ever hold accountable is ourselves. You will realize the friends, enemy, creator and the creation is seated in you & you alone.
Wondering why I am telling this?. Well, It’s because we haven't understood what is means to be devoted to one’s life & we aren't devoted to our own life. Does it make sense to expect everyone around us to be devoted to us? Seriously?
Devotion and respect for oneself brings love and affection and then you establish a deeper connection with your inner self, you not just feel alive but you find the cause of your birth. The sad reality is respect is demanded. The Bhava, Bhavana doesn't need a reason to love, It’s our nature.
The very moment we come into this world, we are held in the hands of our loved one and welcomed into this world with a kiss on our cheeks. So, isn't it obvious that the majority of us always wish to be embraced and kissed by our loved ones?. But, don't you think in this process we have lost connection with ourselves and always seek love in another soul when deep down we are an ocean of happiness and have abundant love?.
When was the last time you hugged yourself, When was the last time you gave a pat on the back and said you’re the best, Why is that you’ve stopped appreciating yourself?. Is it because you are asking to get your heart broken? Or do you want to experience pain and understand the meaning of love or are you just lost ?
Where are you?. What are you headed towards?
Start now !!!
Rise | Shine | Evolve
-Harsha Nagaraj
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